How to Keep Your Dreams and Your Day Job

How to Keep Your Dreams and Your Day JobKelsey Murphy from the Muse has advice for aspiring globe-trotters and self-re-inventors she knows from experience the joys and perils of quitting her day job and hopping on a tuch to explore a new career while traveling the world. One day,she realized moving to London on a whim wasnt necessarythere were plenty of opportunities to explore the greener grass much closer to home. googletag.cmd.push(function() googletag.display(div-gpt-ad-1467144145037-0) ) Embrace the Learning CurveFor every new job or challenge Ive had, theres been a moment about a week or a month in where I wanted to quit, where the things that stressed me out far overshadowed the things I enjoyed. I was convinced I wasnt meant to be an editor, a teaching assistant, a writer, a dog-owner, or even a New Yorker.But in the beginning, nobodys an expert or a pro, and even if youre a wunderkind youve got plenty to learn on the job. Be willing to screw up, apologize, and learn a new w ay to do things. The learning curve is even easier to swallow if its not a full-time experienceuse the security of gainful employment to explore something youve always wanted to do on the side in the evenings or on weekends. Dont let fear of failing keep you from dabbling.Harness the 15-Minute IntentionIf youre getting swept up in the demands of the minute-to-minute, take some timeto refocus on the big picture to-dos. What are you prioritizing? What gets knocked off course by errands or someone elses urgency?Try to set aside 15 minutes a day to check in with something important to you, outside your daily grind. Maybe you add it on in the morning, or partition your lunch hour, or have a few quiet minutes right when you get home. There are plenty of productivity apps that can help you mark off the time.Find a Mentor (A Small One)The idea of forging a mentor/mentee relationship from scratch is daunting I cant even watch the Karate Kid without my intimacy issues flaring up. But, what Mu rphy calls a mini-mentor can be someone to help you in a small way, with one specific area of your life.Find one thing youd like to learn in service of your larger interests, and the right person to ask. It may develop into a larger relationship, or it may conclude with one simple interaction, but either way youre better off for having sought and accepted help. Plus if you do decide to throw caution to the wind and quit job A in pursuit of passion B, youll have at least one potential networking connection